What Feminism Means To Me

An essay inspired by “Feminists Don’t Wear Pink (and other lies)”, curated by Scarlett Curtis

An essay inspired by “Feminists Don’t Wear Pink (and other lies)”, curated by Scarlett Curtis

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Almost a year ago to this day, I wrote an article entitled #NotMeToo: I Am Not A Victim.

It was born out of frustration.

I felt frustrated by the absolutism of the #MeToo movement, and worried about its repercussions — not so much upon the individuals concerned, but in relation to its impact upon society as a whole.

First and foremost: the power of a label.

What does defining ourselves as victims do to the way in which we hold, perceive and assert our place in the world?

Does this in fact undermine our ability to alter our own narrative?

And, if so, could we be impeding our own progress by presenting ourselves in this way?

I was wrong.

I wanted to deny my own story because it hurt too much. Because I felt guilty. Because I felt like it was my fault. Because what if it was? Because #nuances. Because sex is power[ful]. Because we do what we can to survive.

I wanted to deflect from the tru…